They’ll not get a cookie for doing what they are My daughters will know there are absolutely no limits of their options based on race.
They will know the world is their oyster and know they can bring home a boy whose purple with pink polka dots, and as long as he treats her well, he will have a place at our dinner table.
Even my oldest daughter, who is not his biologically, often calls him first to get advice, and that really makes me smile. They’re learning what a good man is by living with one full time and seeing what a healthy, functional, loving relationship looks like in real time.
Now that’s not to say that my daughters will always choose the right guys.
Thanks for your time and for advice is appreciated.I just ignored him and was saying to myself “keep rolling because I am not even checking for you.” My daughter looked at me with a shocked face like “MOM” I told her I was sorry but told her I was not looking for someone who plays loud music, cornrows,saggy jeans and a white tee.How do I talk to her and let her know about them with out bashing?How would you feel if one of your daughters wanted to date a BM?I know some are good but a lot of them have deep rooted issues with black women.