The man I fell in love with back in the days of hippies and flower children was a very attractive guy who had twinkling brown eyes and a shaved head. Today, he is still bald and has an attractive gray beard, but I don’t seem to see his wrinkles because even now his brown eyes look at me with the same love and desire.He doesn’t see me as the grandmother I am today (with my share of wrinkles and age spots).It is about recognizing all the qualities that make your lover special and continues to reassure him or her that they still turn you on.You don’t have to act old just because the number of birthdays gone by says you are in your senior years.
Make it a regular habit to do so and both of you will feel good and deeply connected every day. End every day with a goodnight kiss No matter how difficult or challenging the day has been or even if we've had a disagreement, my husband and I never fall asleep without exchanging a goodnight kiss.My spouse has had surgery for prostate cancer that has left him with some challenges.We both do our best with the bodies we now have and laugh about it.To my eyes, when my husband gets dressed up he looks downright dreamy.I am lucky that he is an artist with a wonderful talent for color and design, so I like to compliment him on how he looks. Another way to reinforce your love and admiration is to speak politely to each other.